People need to be in love because it’s a good thing. But not everyone will be in love. Different commitments and phobias have hindered some people of the wonderful gift of being in love. But still other people are in love but not to their partners but to their work, car, boat, dog, self etc.
Being in love with someone gives you internal happiness. You know you are not alone. There’s someone out there who wants the same things as you and who enjoys the same things as you and who supports you and takes care of you and loves you and sleeps with you.
When people are in love, they are more organized and focused. A lot of energy and time is wasted thinking about sex and looking for a partner. But when you in love, you don’t have to look for a partner, you don’t have to look for love, you don’t have to spend a lot of time looking for sex and thinking about sex. Your partner provides you these things, thus you have more time to do other things. It’s like a heavy burden has been lifted off your shoulder. You can then spend that time doing good for mankind. ‘A happy man has happy thoughts’. Being in love is a wonderful thing and most people should fall in love. But the desire to be in love should not outweigh the readiness to be in love.
If being in love is rushed, it crushes. You need to really know the person before you commit to them and totally open up to them. Unfortunately we live in a cruel world where some people don’t have honest intentions. Something like being in love can be manipulated for their own benefit, which would not benefit you but bring you misery. If someone loves you that means they are saying that they are not going anywhere. Thus there is no need to rush for anything.
Being in love should not be used as means to take advantage of someone neither should it be used to ruin someone’s life.
Being in love should be enjoyed, appreciated and looked forward to.
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